Going to a gay club alone

Sometimes, going out with friends can seem to be like a chore: waiting for them to finish getting ready, taking care of who gets shitfaced, deciding which bar/club to go to. Empty Closets. Learn More. Thread Tools Thread Tools.

Despite how intimidating it may seem, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with going to a gay bar by yourself. Don’t be daunted, just follow these tips and you’re guaranteed to be the best wingman you’ve ever had. Discussion in ' Sexual Orientation ' started by Confuseddude , Jul 3, Empty Closets. Thread Tools Thread Tools.

Funnily enough, I went by myself to a gay club for the first time on Saturday. (I'd been to clubs/bars before, but with others). I had put off going alone before, too, but no one there minded or looked at me like I was 'desperate' for being there on my own. I definitely agree with everyone else's posts and think you should give it a go. Have fun!. Long before the internet and gay dating apps came into existence, gay bars perfected the art of creating safe spaces for the queer community. Unlike in the past, when gay bars were hidden, modern queer bars are as common as any mainstream bars in most countries. As long as you maintain a respectful presence, you can hang out in a gay bar regardless of your sexual orientation.

Before you write off the idea of going clubbing by yourself, take a moment to consider the benefits that a night out alone can bring: No getting dragged along to endless smoke breaks. No. Yes, we are social creatures but who said we had to wait for someone else to want what we want before we do what we want to do? I remember when I first started going to bars alone. I was so nervous!